Not that I'm an expert....

But sex doesn't seem all that great.

Maybe its all the Law and Order SVU that's made it so frightening. Or maybe its Sex and the City that has made it so undesirable by commodotizing it. Whatever it is, doesn't seem all that great.

Neither does the concept of lingerie. Why should one have to put on something from Victoria's Secret before one is considered beautiful or sexy? What's wrong with good ol' 100% cotton? Doesn't putting so much emphasis on lingerie make sex all about the clothes and not about the person? What's the point of lingerie anyway? You put it on only so you can take it off? Is that 30 seconds of excitement worth the $45?

It's sad but TV and advertising have taken away all the mystery and romance of sex and just created crazy expectations.. and as a result, most men will probably be disappointed with their lot... which doesn't do much for the women's self-esteem either.

So I say, frankly, it's all much ado about nothing.